Making Your Nursery Work for You: Creating a Space That Grows With Your Baby

Making Your Nursery Work for You: Creating a Space That Grows With Your Baby

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Emily Murphy

Emily Murphy

Registered Midwife

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Catherine Paul

A nursery can look beautiful, but once your baby arrives, you'll quickly discover that practical matters just as much as pretty. At 2am, you probably won't care whether everything matches perfectly. You'll care that you can find a clean sleepsuit, reach the nappies and grab what you need without turning the whole room upside down. The best nursery isn't necessarily the one that looks perfect. It's the one that makes everyday life a little easier.

 

Think about how you'll actually use the room 

Before filling your nursery with furniture and accessories, imagine yourself using it on an ordinary day. Where will you change your baby? Where will you get them dressed? Where will you feed or settle them? What will you need when you're tired and trying to do everything one-handed? Thinking about your routines first can help you decide what you actually need - rather than buying things simply because they look lovely. 

 

Keep the things you use most close by 

Newborn life involves a surprising amount of reaching, grabbing and rummaging. Think about the things you'll use regularly and make them easy to find. Nappies, wipes, muslins, clean clothes and other everyday essentials can be organised so they're close to where you'll need them. You don't need everything on display. A simple, organised system that works for you is more useful than a perfectly styled shelf. 

 

Make changing straightforward 

You might be changing your baby several times a day, so make this area work hard for you. Keep clothes organised by size, have changing essentials together and consider where you'll put dirty clothes and used nappies. And remember that your baby will grow quickly. You don't need every size of clothing out at once. Keeping the next size or two accessible while storing the rest elsewhere can make drawers much easier to navigate. 

 

Leave room to grow 

Your newborn won't stay tiny forever. A space that works beautifully for a newborn might feel very different once your baby is rolling, crawling, pulling themselves up and exploring. You don't need to predict exactly how you'll use the room years from now, but leaving some flexibility means you can adapt it as your baby develops. Think flexible rather than finished. 

 

Don't fill every corner 

It's tempting to fill a nursery with everything you might possibly need. But babies don't actually need a room full of stuff. Leaving some open floor space gives you somewhere to play, explore and eventually move around together. It also makes the room easier to change as your baby's needs develop. A little empty space isn't wasted space. It's room to grow. 

Making Your Nursery Work for You: Creating a Space That Grows With Your Baby

Keep safer sleep in mind 

Your baby's sleep space is one area where practicality and safety really do come first. For the first 6 months, the safest place for your baby to sleep is in their own clear, flat, separate sleep space in the same room as you, day and night. Keep their sleep space free from pillows, duvets, cot bumpers and other loose or soft items, and always follow the manufacturer's instructions for your chosen cot or crib. 

For more guidance, see the Lullaby Trust's safer sleep advice Safer sleep information | The Lullaby Trust.

Midwife Emily's Top Tip 

Your nursery doesn't need to be perfect, Pinterest-worthy or completely finished before your baby arrives. 

Think about how you'll use the space, keep everyday essentials easy to reach, leave room to adapt and resist the urge to fill every corner. The room will change as your baby grows- and that's exactly what it's supposed to do. 

Create a nursery that works for your family, not just one that looks good in photographs.